It's really hard for me to put into words how I felt about my cousin Judy...I'll try, it is really more of a deep feeling, a very bright flame, a force to be reckoned with.. we made each other laugh, hysterically,whenever we were together. In a way I feel like I missed out on being around her more, I was the one in the land across the pond... we made up for all of it when I visited my homeland and she came over to me. It was always as if we were never apart... It's amazing how much we were alike... and the things we both loved... gardening,decorating,clothes...SHOPPING!!! Judy is not gone, she is with us all, even more now, I feel she's by our sides looking out after us,laughing,being bossy, telling us, not to be sad, be happy,life is obviously too short,live every moment as if it's your last... she loved Christmas, I decorated an entire section of my tree in her memory,the FLAME will never go out, it's too powerful, I love you JUDY, JUDY, JUDY... It was as if you were my little sister,you are!I think of my Mum and my Auntie Katie ( My other Mum )I remember whenever they were together they absolutely couldn't stop laughing,it was out of control, like an entity that made you so hysterical with laughter,we were the next generation of that, our Mothers daughters,we did that exact same thing just looking at each other... That's what I'll always remember about Judy.I'll love you always and go on for you.I know you're watching!!! Love, Sarah